So I was bored about a week ago and decided to watch some tv. Now its daytime TV so I knew there would probably be nothing on until I saw something that caught my eye. I began watching the Tyra show since the subject today was straight girls kissing to get attention. I was genuinely intrigued and decided to watch. In one guests story she talks about how during parties when the song "I kissed a girl" comes on guys want the girls to kiss and most do. After that my brain began working (which sucks because I'm on vacation and I'm not supposed to be thinking) and I decided to address some things in the show.

Why is it that girls want attention so bad that they'll resort to kissing another woman just so guys will talk to them. Girls complain about being objectified by men all the time but when things like this go on its a wonder why. Sure that is to say men don't objectify women when they are not doing something of the sort but when girls do this to get attention it doesn't exactly help. Now i mean no offense when I write this so no lynch mobs coming after me please. Now why is it, I honestly don't understand, that women seek so much attention? Now see I am not a judgmental person, a psychologist or anything of the sort. But that doesn't stop other people from judging. Unfortunately this seems to be how society works. Everyone is separated by where they stand in society. There are those who find it appropriate and feel they are not hurting anyone by doing such actions and there are those who feel its giving others (lesbians were used as the comparison in the show) who feel its painting a bad image and representation. Which is true because it seems they are "playing lesbian" to get attention while those who are lesbians who do tis as a show of affection may feel offended. I mean how owuld you feel, a lesbian, kissing your significant other when a guy comes up and starts hitting on you? Then when he calls you a tease after explaining your a lesbian, and probably not believing you a whole fight breaks out. This sort of behavior is building up a negative thing and eventually we'll stop hearing about it. Not because it has stopped but because it will eventually become a widely acceptable thing. Normal to be seen at parties, bars, clubs, hotels, etc. Not ot mention its also done even in schools, one of the shows guests being twins, one who was doing such actions, only being in highschool. Not to mention what kind of message are women sending when they kiss other women in bars and places like the sort. Does this message convey a message of "I want a relationship, bf or a one night stand?" And what kind of men will these girls attract anyway? The kind who would push her to do things it would seem like. What happens in the future if the man wants to bring another woman into their relationship and she says no? How will a woman answer when he asks "But what about when I met you and you were making out with that girl? I thought you would like this sort of thing?" The woman has placed herself into a situation where it is preconceived she will act and do certain things. The person has formed a sort of reputation. What's worse is them using a song like "I kissed a girl" in such a way where it can't really be enjoyed as a song anymore but now a song which is used at parties to kiss other girls. What is this world coming to? Now would women talk to a man if he was making out with another man? Chances are no since she would probably think he is a homosexual and he already has a prtner and wold move on. So what is stopping a man from seeing such a scene and thinking the same thing? So please consider all that I've said here. Now I'll use my disclaimer since i didn't want people shutting down before they read my blog.

Dosclaimer: I am a Christian. I do not advocate homosexuality, or homosexual practices. I am though not judgmental. I dislike the sin not the sinner. Please do not flame me or anything this is only my opinion on this subject which relfects my beliefs but please just take into consideration what I have said.


In case you're interested here is the link to a video on the Tyra website and some comments left.


http://tyrashow.warnerbros.com/2009/06/what_do_you_think_of_straight.php?page=17